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We Are What We Consume: Waking Up to the Water We Swim In
What if everything we've been consuming—from the food we eat to the content we watch, the clothes we wear to the materialistic mindset we've absorbed—has been slowly poisoning us? Not through intentional self-harm, but through a toxic cultural ecosystem we were born into. We didn't choose the chemicals in our food, the fast fashion exploitation on our backs, the consumerism telling us happiness comes through acquisition, the songs normalizing objectification, the shows presen
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Nov 14 min read


The Art of Letting Others Be Human: Growing Through Imperfect Relationships
We've been sold an incomplete story about relationships: that healthy ones are characterized by constant harmony, and that if we're doing it "right," there won't be friction, disappointment, or moments where we wonder if we've made a mistake in letting this person close. While unconditional acceptance is possible—there have been rare individuals who've embodied it fully—for most of us still navigating our ego-driven patterns, this ideal becomes a trap. We use it as evidence t
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Nov 15 min read


You Can Only Teach What You Are: Why We Must Heal Before We Help
We've all done it: given advice we don't follow. Taught principles we haven't integrated. Helped others while avoiding our own healing work. We say the right things, perform the right behaviors, adopt the proper language—while internally operating from a completely different place. This is what "fake it till you make it" really means: performing a version of wisdom we haven't genuinely embodied. And the cost isn't just personal—it's relational. When we teach before we've lear
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Nov 14 min read


From Screen Time to Heart Time: Finding Balance in Teaching Emotional Intelligence
My 16-month-old is having a complete meltdown because I literally gave him what he wanted, only to find he doesn't like it now, and is...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Oct 14 min read


Analyzing Charlie Kirk's Approach to Cross-Party Communication
You may have heard about Charlie Kirk, an influential debater, father, and husband, who was shot and killed on September 10, 2025, while...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Oct 14 min read


Moving Through It: How Dance and Movement Unlock Emotional Release
As a new parent, I encountered challenges that I thought I was long past—like anxiety. It had been over a decade since I'd battled with...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Sep 14 min read


Generation Z: The Full Picture Beyond Myths and Excuses
As Generation Z enters the workforce en masse, the narrative about them swings wildly between two extremes: they're either misunderstood...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Sep 14 min read


The Paradox of War in an Age of Enlightenment
We can edit genes and peer into distant galaxies, yet we still drop bombs on children to solve political disputes. The Uncomfortable...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Aug 12 min read


Seeds of Hope: Extraordinary Acts of Human Kindness Transforming Our World
Extraordinary acts of human compassion, ingenuity, and dedication are quietly transforming our planet and communities, often far from the...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Aug 14 min read


Spiritual Bypassing vs. Spiritual Embodiment: When Wisdom Meets Real Life
The difference between using spirituality to escape your humanity and bringing consciousness into it
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Jul 14 min read


The Ripple Effect of Inner Work: How Your Healing Heals the World
A quiet revolution is happening in living rooms, therapists' offices, and meditation corners. People are choosing to face their shadows,...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Jul 14 min read


Is the "Care Less" Culture Making Us Worse People?
Directly beside me, parked across three spaces in the gym parking lot, was a beat-up van with a rearview mirror ornament that read "Care...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Jun 14 min read


Compassion: To Suffer With or Together
The day before Mother's Day, I found myself in the woods asking the universe a question I didn't know how to answer: Why do I feel so...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Jun 14 min read


The Silent Cost of Pride: How Our Need to Be Right Undermines Connection and Growth
Pride—that feeling of satisfaction in our accomplishments or status—seems harmless and even beneficial on the surface. Yet beneath its...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Jun 13 min read


Present-Moment Decision Making: How Awareness Changes Choices
We make approximately 35,000 decisions every day. From the mundane—what to wear, what to eat—to the monumental—career changes,...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
May 15 min read


Political Differences, Emotional Connection: Maintaining Important Relationships Despite Profound Ideological Divides
We may find ourselves in relationships with people whose political views we consider not just different, but potentially dangerous. If we...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Apr 15 min read


Intuitive Movement: Finding Joy in Exercise Beyond Fitness Trends
Our world seems to be dominated by before-and-after photos, workout challenges, and fitness influencers selling the next revolutionary...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Apr 13 min read


Breaking Free: Financial Wellness Through Mindfulness in a Consumer-Driven World
Another week or month, another moment of dread as you check your bank balance. The numbers never seem to align with your efforts—no...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Apr 14 min read


The Landscape of Emotional Intelligence: A Personal Reflection
Sometimes, our most profound lessons arrive wrapped in moments of absolute chaos — when the carefully constructed narratives of our...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Apr 13 min read


Emotional Intelligence As the Antidote to DEI Backlash: An Opportunity to De-politicize and Embody Kindness
The current administration has imposed a challenge for organizations as they grapple with the intersection of political shifts, workplace...

Doni Landefeld, Ph.D.
Mar 13 min read
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