When an 800-year-old baobab tree in Senegal's village of Niodior finally fell, the community gathered for seven nights. Each person added a stone to a growing cairn while sharing stories of what the tree had witnessed—births, marriages, conflicts resolved beneath its canopy, the drought that had weakened its roots. By the final night, grief had transformed into collective acknowledgment that bearing witness together made the unbearable somehow bearable. This instinct to gathe

For centuries, humanity has been defined by expansion. We've crossed oceans, connected continents, and built a global infrastructure that delivers marvels our ancestors couldn't have imagined: technologies that extend lifespans, affordable goods, and the ability to experience distant cultures without leaving home. Yet somewhere in this magnificent expansion, something essential has been lost. The Great Disconnect The same globalization that brought us closer has, paradoxicall

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In a culture of individualism and isolation, these books offer a different vision: community not as something we join but as something we create through presence, commitment, and shared care. They explore what it means to belong, to serve, and to weave the social fabric our souls require. The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker Parker, a facilitator who's designed gatherings from diplomatic negotiations to family dinners, reveals how most gatherings fail because we haven't thoug

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