I'm still deeply engaged with self-development—or maybe more accurately, self-discovery. But my relationship with it has fundamentally changed. For years, I consumed everything I could about personal growth and psychology. Books, workshops, courses—if it promised insight into the human mind and behavior, I was there. With a background in psychology and working as an emotional intelligence coach, I believed understanding more would help me help others more effectively. And it

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