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Community as Heartwork
In a culture of individualism and isolation, these books offer a different vision: community not as something we join but as something we create through presence, commitment, and shared care. They explore what it means to belong, to serve, and to weave the social fabric our souls require. The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker Parker, a facilitator who's designed gatherings from diplomatic negotiations to family dinners, reveals how most gatherings fail because we haven't thoug
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Dec 13 min read


We Are What We Consume: Waking Up to the Water We Swim In
What if everything we've been consuming—from the food we eat to the content we watch, the clothes we wear to the materialistic mindset we've absorbed—has been slowly poisoning us? Not through intentional self-harm, but through a toxic cultural ecosystem we were born into. We didn't choose the chemicals in our food, the fast fashion exploitation on our backs, the consumerism telling us happiness comes through acquisition, the songs normalizing objectification, the shows presen
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Nov 14 min read


The Art of Letting Others Be Human: Growing Through Imperfect Relationships
We've been sold an incomplete story about relationships: that healthy ones are characterized by constant harmony, and that if we're doing it "right," there won't be friction, disappointment, or moments where we wonder if we've made a mistake in letting this person close. While unconditional acceptance is possible—there have been rare individuals who've embodied it fully—for most of us still navigating our ego-driven patterns, this ideal becomes a trap. We use it as evidence t
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Nov 15 min read


Analyzing Charlie Kirk's Approach to Cross-Party Communication
You may have heard about Charlie Kirk, an influential debater, father, and husband, who was shot and killed on September 10, 2025, while...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Oct 14 min read


Generation Z: The Full Picture Beyond Myths and Excuses
As Generation Z enters the workforce en masse, the narrative about them swings wildly between two extremes: they're either misunderstood...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Sep 14 min read


Compassion: To Suffer With or Together
The day before Mother's Day, I found myself in the woods asking the universe a question I didn't know how to answer: Why do I feel so...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Jun 14 min read


Deep Work in a Shallow Age: Creating Value Through Focused Attention
We live in a distraction-dominated economy where the ability to focus deeply has become both increasingly rare and valuable. As...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
May 13 min read


Political Differences, Emotional Connection: Maintaining Important Relationships Despite Profound Ideological Divides
We may find ourselves in relationships with people whose political views we consider not just different, but potentially dangerous. If we...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Apr 15 min read


The Resume Dilemma: Authentic Self vs. Ideal Candidate
Recently, I was approached to speak at a professional development seminar about resume enhancement strategies, specifically focusing on...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Jan 13 min read


The Paradoxes of Simplicity: Finding Our Way Back
When I visit historic buildings in Europe and Asia, I'm struck by their intricate details. A single square inch contains more artistic...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Jan 13 min read


Cancel Culture vs. Free Speech: Understanding Both Sides of the Debate
There’s a peculiar paradox in how we navigate speech and silence in our modern world. We’ve created spaces where every voice can be...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Nov 1, 20243 min read


The Danger of Broad-Brushing: Avoiding Prejudice Based on Individual Acts
In an era of increasing social and political polarization, the tendency to blame entire groups for the actions of individuals has become...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Aug 1, 20243 min read


The Value of Emptiness: A Counter-Intuitive and Counter-Culture Way of Living
In the constant noise and busyness of modern life, where the unending chase for more is not only promoted but celebrated, the idea of...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Jul 1, 20243 min read


The Value of Detoxing Oneself from an Atmosphere of Judgment
In the landscape of personal growth, the recognition and transformation of our judgmental tendencies stand as crucial milestones....
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Jun 1, 20244 min read


Why More Training is Not the Solution to Poor Customer Service
What was your last customer experience like? I hope positive—according to surveys, 80% of customer service interactions are positive....
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Apr 1, 20244 min read


The Dark Side of Pop Culture: A Look at Its Impact on Society
As I look around at the society I was born into—a Western, "civilized" community—I recognize that, from my earliest days, I was pulled...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Mar 1, 20245 min read


How Trauma Creates Bias and Bias Creates Trauma
Trauma is a word that is often associated with severe experiences like physical abuse or a life-altering event. But trauma can take many...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Jan 1, 20243 min read


How to Give Honest Feedback that is Well Received and Reduce Discomfort
Offering feedback is an act of kindness and respect when given honestly and thoughtfully from the heart (not the ego), and can lead to...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Dec 1, 20232 min read


How Open Communication Can Connect Us More Deeply with Others
Have you ever felt like you were stuck in a superficial conversation, unable to connect on a deeper or meaningful level? Perhaps you've...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Dec 1, 20233 min read


Stories of Kindness: Becoming United, not Divided
In an era marked by division and hostility, the power of kindness remains a beacon of hope. The following stories serve as a testament to...
Brittney-Nichole Connor-Savarda
Nov 1, 20233 min read
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